Redford, my four-year old Golden Retriever recently taught me a lesson a
bout the importance of ritual in our lives. As I sat there watching another game of football on a Saturday afternoon, he came up, tennis ball in his mouth, and stood there staring at me.
Since he was a puppy, he has loved to chase tennis balls. If you are willing to throw the ball, he is willing to chase it down and bring it back to you. Throw the ball, retrieve the ball…throw the ball, retrieve the ball…again and again and again. His energy is endless. His passion is pure. Chasing tennis balls is an everyday ritual that in many ways defines who he his. He is a retriever. He loves to retrieve. He is happiest and healthiest when he is retrieving.
Summer in south Louisiana is especially hard on him. The heat and humidity make the ritual of chasing tennis balls a far less regular part of Redford’s life than he would like. He doesn’t understand why we can’t play with tennis balls during the summer as often as we can during the rest of the year. T
emperatures in mid-June make chasing tennis balls risky. The picture of him standing there with a tennis ball in his mouth and a sad look in his eye is almost too much to bear. By mid-July each year, he gives up asking and just lays down on the floor, tennis ball close by. He is not the same dog when the ritual of chasing tennis balls is not a regular part of his life.
But when Fall arrives with its cooler temperatures, the ritual of retrieving returns in full force. Throw the ball, retrieve the ball…throw the ball, retrieve the ball…over and over again. His energy and passion return after their heat induced summer sabbatical. He is once again happy, healthy and whole. All because of the presence of a simple, but essential ritual in his life. And I guess seasonal ritual is better than no ritual at all.
Watching him thrive on his canine ritual reminds me how we as human beings thrive on ritual as well. Our lives are filled with activities and events. There are appointments to keep, places to go and people to see and, of course, football games to watch. The question for us to answer is not will we have ritual in our lives, but rather, what rituals will make up the fabric of our lives. It is so easy to become bogged down in rituals that rob us of our energy and passion, that keep us from being truly happy, healthy and whole.
I have to confess that I am a seasonal monastic. I live in a community that is home to St. Joseph Abbey, a Benedictine monastery and seminary college. Every day at the appointed times, the monks process into the church, fill the choir and sing the liturgy of the hours – lauds, sext, vespers, compline – morning, noon, night. Prayer and praise. In between, they work. For
them, work is prayer and prayer is work.
For many, this daily ritual seems out of date and tradition-bound, out of touch with today’s world – a consumer driven world where anything but that latest and greatest, the newest and best, is deemed unacceptable. But there is something contagious about their daily schedule. There is something about this out of touch, tradition-bound ritual that feeds my soul each time I am there in the midst of it, even more when I give myself to its rhythm and flow.
Life is filled with activities and events. There are appointments to keep, places to go and people to see. How easy it is to chase things that can never bring fulfillment or meaning. The question is not will we have ritual in our lives, but rather, what rituals will make up the fabric of our lives? I have come to believe that the journey of faith is about discovering what rituals truly give life and what rituals should be allowed to guide life. If only dogs could talk….
